Thursday, May 26, 2016

How you can dare to be you

Thursday, May 26, 2016
Love Yourself

And not a version in your head, or the one you think people will like more. It’s so easy to become like everybody else because you think you will be one of the others and this is the only way people will like you. But believe me you will find friends who you are yourself, maybe even better ones, because you can be yourself. In todays society the youth feels the pressure that they should look like everyone else, that being unique, weird and out their is wrong. You are unique and it’s important that you love and accept yourself. If you don’t love yourself you aren’t going to feel comfortable being you. Appreciate how special you are, there will never be anyone exactly like you. You were given special gifts, talents, .. that are unique for you, and nobody will do them the same as you. You are he only you that  will ever be. You are kind of a big deal. Appreciate what you were given. When we are in puberty everything seems a little more difficult to love. Our body changes, mentally we change, we are trying to figure out who we are and it can sometimes be a hard time loving who you are becoming because you might feel like you don’t really know this knew person. It can take some time, but it’s important to remember that this unique person is you, and you need to love you it. Please remember the you were born you you were just a human being, you were happy, just being in the moment. You had no idea you had a body and let alone that you should be ashamed of it. When you looked around, everything just was. You were simply a human … being.

Don’t care

Sometimes it’s okey to say fuck you and just don’t give a shit. It can be so exhausting to care 24/7 what other people think about you. What other people think about you has nothing to do with you and everything with them. We are treated by other peoples beliefs/opinions. We let opinions from others get to us. What do you gain from that? Just don’t care about what other people think. Your are your unique self. You can’t be perfect. Just don’t care. It’ fun I promise. don’t try to be someone your not, if that’s not what the people around you like, find new people.Just wear that crazy had, don’t care about your crazy laugh, put on that horrible music at a party,… Be proud of your crazy sides.
Know what your morals/ values and ethics are

From the moment we are ready to take it in, people start feeding you up with a lifetime’s worth of beliefs, many of which have nothing to do with who you actually are and with what you believe in or what is necessarily true (e.g. you should eat meat for protein, size matters, the world is dangerous, being an artist isn’t a real job, ….) and the thing is the main source of this information was of coure your parents, assisted by society at large. When your parent raise you they teach you these thing to protect you and educate young love you. They pass on the beliefs they were thought from their parents, and so on. The problem is many of these beliefs they teach you, have nothing to do with who they are or what is actually true. Most people are living in an illusion based on someone else’s beliefs. And I know I don’t want to be one of those people. Whit todays social media it’s so easy to get influenced by everything and everyone. It’s so easy to forget who YOU are, and get caught up by the opinions around you. But not only that, you parents can influence you so much. They raise you they teach you what’s right and wrong. And when your young it’s good sometimes to have a guidance to help you through this not always easy life. But once you get older it’s so important to get the space to create your own person. Most people get so caught up in the idea that there is only one right way to live, and think it’s the way they are doing it. News flash, there is not. It’s one to be the different one in your family. I know I am. But it’s important to not let that get to you and just keep fighting for your beliefs. Yo need to reconnect with who we truly are and  start investing in what’s true for us that we can start to live a rich, full authentic live.
Accept failing

You can’t know from the moment you walk on this earth who you are, what you want and what you want to bring to this world. It takes some time. You change and grow through the years. You’ll take the leap and finally be yourself, but it may not work out the way you expect it to be. But it’s important to remember that when things don’t turn out the way you thought they would, you get the feeling you don’t really know who you are, or you don’t feel comfortable the way you are right now. You can always start over and start to develop yourself all over again.

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