Friday, April 01, 2016

New me new life new start

Friday, April 01, 2016
Starting all over again. Going in a new direction with your life. When you forget who you are, where you stand for. Sometimes it is the right time for you to re-evaluate your life. Who do you want to be as a person? What are your morals and values? If you’re not truly you, are you willing to work on yourself, rediscover and  then change  that what keeps you from being you? Finding your voice and passions in life is  hard.  But it’s so much harder being unhappy and letting that define you as person. But where do we begin with finding yourself all over again. It’s not something that happens overnight! Puberty  is a time off lost and a lot off judgement. You need time to figure out what you want in life. This can take months or years. Here are a coupple off questions to ask  yourself:

1. What makes you happy and smile?  You can be so blinded by all the things that make you unhappy, but try to remember the things that would make you happy as a child. Reliving those small things can make you feel like your old self and realise not everything is so bad. When you found that one thing that makes you smile. Try to hold on to that and try do that as much as possible.
2. Who are the people you look up to?   Surround yourself with personalities you want to be yourself.
3. Would I want to hangout with myself? Or would I not like myself as an outsider? Would I like myself if I wasn’t me. Or would I hate myself? Try to make a list about the things that you do and don’t like about you. Try to work on the negative points and try to hold on to the positive ones.
4. What  do I want to do with my life, what carreer, do I want to travel, … ? Finding your dream career can really define you as a preson. Finally knowing what you want to do with your life can be such a game changer. It’s so hard to know what you’re passionated to do for the rest off your life. I feel like this is almost the most important thing to have figured out to really know who you are. This can be the start off a new life.
5. What is it that makes me unhappy? Work on these things. Cancel them out off your life. Wheater this is a person, clothes or  material. Just get rid off it. It’s never worth your happiness.
6. What is important to me? Think about things that you value as a person and try to apply these in your day to day life.  
7. Am I doing enough with my life? Or am I just hanging on my couch complaining and feeling lost? Sometimes  going outside, going on  an adventure will open up your eyes and will make you realise a lot. When ou feel lost in life you tent to stay inside and do nothing. All you do is think about hte fact you’re not happy with yourself at the moment. But staying inside watching TV is nothing gonna change about that feeling, a lot off the times it will make it only worse. Do something; go for a jog, do yoga, meditate, read, go for long alks, ride your bike to places instead off the car, it will clear your head and will make you think more straight.
8. Do I care what others think off me? There is only one right awnser to this question, NO. You do you, and if  other people find you weird, immature, irresponsible, stupid,… Don’t botter, those are probably not the right people for you to hang out with. There is only one preson who knows what is right for you. What you wear, do or say is your choice and defines you as person, you can never let someone define or change that. What other people think about you has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. And keep in mind not everybody is the same, that would be so boring there are always gonna be people wo disagree with  you and find you a freak. But remember you are responsible for what you say and do. You are not responsible for whether or not people freak out about it. Starting over again can be so refreshing. It can be so exhausting being stuck in this vicious circle off feeling lost. Don’t wait till tomorrow to  take action. you’re the solution to your own problems, no one else can really know what is going on inside your head, and therefore can not really help you as much as  you.

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